Consciousness Dialogues
Communication starts with a common language
Knowledge comes from asking good questions
Understanding comes from experience
One of the biggest challenges in researching consciousness (in fact, researching anything) is communication. We use a wide variety of words (like consciousness, self, spirit, awareness, and so forth) to represent a wide variety of concepts, yet so often forget that words have profound limitations. The same word can mean different things to different people; we often use different words to mean similar things. And what makes the situation even worse is that people often go years (or even decades) without realizing that they were not communicating effectively.
It was in recognition of this hurdle that ICRL and the BIHS initiated the Consciousness Dialogues research initiative. The goal was (and still is) to create a concept map laying out the myriad of concepts that underlie the field of consciousness studies, and in a form that leverages rich description and metaphor instead of terms for which there is no common understanding. The envisioned process was to conduct a series of discussions with people from all types of backgrounds and experience levels, exploring the way different people view consciousness and other intrinsically-connected concepts.
We quickly realized that we had only scratched the surface of something with much greater potential, that we had overlooked something truly important, and so obvious in hindsight: the experience of having these discussions was just as beneficial to the participants as it was to the project. The people involved enjoyed the experience, grew from the experience. In other words, this was an activity that was not just about language, but that provided real benefit to participants, creating bonds that transformed groups of individual “I”‘s into a coherent “We”.
So what is a Consciousness Dialogues Retreat? During these four- or five-day events, a group of 12-15 participants come together in a supportive space to explore aspects of conscious experience as a group. Activities are always experiential, and range broadly in nature. Past experiences have included meditation, collaborative art, altered boundaries of consciousness, dance, authentic relating, and many others. Each group experience is followed by a discussion session in which we explore the activity at a more cognitive level, understanding the commonalities and differences between what everyone experienced. The retreats always include additional opportunities to come together as a group through social engagement, excursions to enjoy local attractions, etc.
As you will see from the posts that share details about the different instances, we strive to offer Consciousness Dialogue Retreats at different locations around the world, and with activities tailored to the backgrounds and interests of the participants (and sometimes even led by participants when they are interested in doing so). Each retreat is a unique experience, and feedback from our participants has made it very clear that we have tapped into something that is very much needed in today’s world.
Postings About CD Retreats
What Past Participants Had to Say...
- About the participants: “Diverse collection of open-minded, beautiful souls” … “Deep connection with others”… “The connection with wonderful people and the topic”… “So grateful to have met such a loving group of people willing to spend so much time and energy on these deeply (and sometimes deeply personal) discussions and activities”
- About the staff: “Masterfully facilitated, noticing the needs of the group and moving as necessary”… “Jeff reaffirmed the idea of challenging the edges and limits of every belief”
- About the experience: “It felt like a true exploration”… “[I loved] the balance between experiencing and dialogue”… “Great conversation and group dynamics”… “Loved the experience of holding both the WE-ness and our individual uniqueness”… “[The activities] took me deep immediately, and a lot of physical tension/pain I was having dissipated immediately”… “the more angles we brought together the more we observed overlaps in language that actually referred to the same [thing]”… “Beautiful experience with beautiful people!”… ” I came in not at all knowing what to expect, feeling somewhat tense and disconnected. I left with wonderful friends!”
- About the impact: “It was hard to go back to the ‘I’ space that is normal life after leaving that lovely ‘WE’ space we created”… “I learned there are many ways to both think about and access consciousness”… “I got many messages about how to take care of myself over the coming months”… “Shared we spaces experiences made me realize how little time we actually spend really looking at each other, taking each other in, feeling into the ‘we’ space in our normal life (especially w/those we are closest to and think we know)”… ” I gained some much-needed clarity”… “These found communalities are the new building blocks of a real WE – language around consciousness”… “It was an amazing retreat, where I feel I became a little more attuned to my intuition”… “It created a desire in me to have many more of these experiences.”
- What people liked most: “The opportunity to learn new perspectives from other people interested in exploring consciousness”… “As an introvert, I especially benefitted from the structured activities, which allow me to push my comfort zone”… “I loved trying a group REG exercise for the first time, the improv, and of course the food!”… “The interesting stories that emerged from the group’s interactions”… “New way of experiencing consciousness through art [and] discussion”… “I really appreciated the emphasis on reflection and dialogue threaded through the activities”… “The oscillation of independent reflection and community dialogue captured an essence of individual and collective consciousness”